Healing isn't the outcome.

Healing is the start to unlocking something inside so powerful you cannot even comprehend where the journey leads.

You’ve arrived in the exact right spot. We, too, are explorers. Adventurers. Seekers of what others might miss.

Welcome to a world you’ve never experienced before.

Welcome to the Relational Healing Lab.

TRAINING. TRANSFORMATION. TRUTH.

The Relational Healing Lab is a survivor-led trauma recovery revolution.

 

A complement to individual clinical sessions, RHL Healing Containers create immersive, imaginative worlds-within-worlds.

Within this new realm of possibility wisdom, embodiment, and magnetism emerge.

Lineage burdens are released. Inherited survival codes deactivated.

Love-based frequencies become the channel.

A message from rhl's founder,
Dr. tanner wallace

I’ve spent more hours than I would like to admit crying on the bathroom floor. In 2021, I founded the Relational Healing Lab to bring into existence what I needed for recovery from my own complex trauma, and could not find anywhere else.

Prior to becoming a trauma recovery coach, I was a tenured university professor of health and human development at the University of Pittsburgh. In my research, I studied the relation between psychological safety and motivation to learn. I am a Level 1 IFS Practitioner and the creator of the 5 Circuits of Healing Power.

I’m also a compassionate, no-contact daughter, supportive sibling to an also-in-recovery human, a second wife, an ex-wife, a biological mother and a stepmother. I am a holder of space, a cheerleader and a champion for Self Energetic living. These days, I am walking towards the Other Side dreaming of the most epic 60th birthday party imaginable.

Featured Trauma Recovery Courses

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Curious what life looks like without trauma distortions?

You Have The Healing Touch!

Learn how to set up a healing container and move through the 5 Circuits of Healing Power

“You are your own most powerful recovery coach.”

The Tanner Wallace Podcast

THE

Tanner Wallace Podcast

This podcast is for you if you chronically feel like the outsider, the freak, the broken one, the one no one would like if they really knew you. This podcast is for you if deep down a part of you longs for more: more connection, more joy, more meaning, and more prosperity. This podcast is for you if you’ve tried other therapeutic and wellness approaches and still feel lost. This podcast is for you if you are ready to learn the concrete steps to become your own most powerful recovery coach.

Join Dr. Tanner Wallace, a Level One IFS Practitioner and human development expert, as she explores what it really takes to recover from complex trauma, CPTSD, and childhood emotional neglect.

Trauma Recovery Articles

Want to work with Tanner 1:1 in her private client container? Receive specialized IFS guidance for complex trauma recovery.

Unleash the power of a survivor-led trauma recovery revolution.

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Yessss!

I know you want to heal. You want things to change. You don’t want what is happening now to be your forever. I get that… deeply. This Guide is just the start. There is so much more to come for you.

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